Everyone seems to be looking for true love in the form of the perfect partner and relationship in this lifetime. It can be quite a preoccupation for some. It is natural to want to have a special someone to share our time and precious moments with, but this is all about looking for love outside of ourselves. We have to love ourselves first before we can truly love another.
So if this year so far has been all about revealing more of who you truly are; more of your authentic self, then you are right on track.
Love is the overriding force in our Universe and loving the self is the foundation for your growth in this lifetime. It is something we have all had to, and continue to work on, much of the time!
Conditional Love
We are so conditioned as children to respond to the behaviour of those around us in a way that is deemed appropriate and acceptable, in order for us to be worthy of their love. There are conditions attached to the love that we receive. We then repeat this cycle of learned behaviour as adults and so it continues and intensifies with each generation.
We have to stop this cycle in order to raise our frequency and help humanity as a collective to shift to higher dimensions of reality.
We are shifting from darkness to light, from fear to love.
Redefine True Love
You can do this by changing the way you respond to those around you. You can provide endless love and support, and refrain from judgement regardless of their behaviour and experience. There can be no strings attached when you are coming from your heart centre and sharing unconditional love. Pure love with no restrictions or limitations, just loving with your whole heart!
Work With Rose Quartz
There's a crystal that has the potential to help you with that by the way, and lucky for us it's so easily obtained and accessible. That's because we all need it in some shape or form. Rose Quartz is a stone for healing the heart and understanding the power of self-acceptance and self-love. You can use its wonderful heart-centred energy to heal your wounds, open and expand your heart's energy and break the cycle.
Prioritise Self-Love
What comes to light when you look within yourself with awareness is exactly what needs to be released in order for you to heal. Wherever you take your attention, energy flows there. So when you start thinking about self-love, I guarantee that something will come to your attention that actually prevents you from loving yourself. Work with that and then you will have cleared a block on your path to self-love. There will be plenty more to be sure, but they will all be resolved at the perfect time.
Heal Self-Love
There are some simple steps you can implement to help you do this....
Take a deep breath
Be aware of your thoughts
Sense if there is tension anywhere in your body
Check-in with your chakras and identify any anomalies
Tune in to your overriding feeling, your dominant vibration
Release and clear anything that comes to your attention
The reason for you incarnating onto this incredibly beautiful and immensely challenging planet is to rise up and become more of who you truly are.... more of your authentic self, more love and more light. To overcome the notion that you are not enough.... because you always have been. You just didn't realise it!
In knowing that you are here in the physical domain, and yet there is SO much more energetically than you have ever been aware of at the same time, can be unsettling and even a little scary at times! But, if I ever feel fear I like to remember the acronym FEAR - Face Everything And Rise
This always gives me a burst of uplifting energy and helps me to remember that we always have choices. In every moment we have choices. Making a new choice is like setting a compass for a new direction in life.
You can fail and falter when adversity raises its head or choose to face your fears, reside in your heart centre and allow the physical and spiritual realms to merge. When you do, incredible things can happen and you are able to rise like a phoenix from the ashes of your old life.
Let's rise and join forces in remembering who we are and work to bring Heaven to Earth.
Conditional love and authentic blessings,
Tiggy xxx
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